Thursday, March 5, 2009

cheating?

I went out with this guy last week,
Had an ok time,
He was kinda cute,
Easy to talk to,
Pretty charming,
But then I just checked OnlySimchas,
And turns out he got engaged last night,
To someone else!

I don't really mind that my name isn't next to his,
But what would his fiancé think,
If she knew that her fiancé
Was out having dinner
With other maidels
Less than one week prior....

11 comments:

stam[azoid] said...

wow.

EsPes said...

soooo weird

Jessica said...

Wow. that's incredibly creepy.

NotaGeek! said...

So I guess he was double dating.. Or triple dating... Or maybe not...

In regular circumstances I think double dating is disgusting since usually you end up comparing...
It's also totally disrespectful to the girl your dating, since it usually means you are not giving it your best shot and full mind. Kinda like a free trial thing.

There are some instances where people to find it acceptable. Like when people come from over seas to look for a shidduch for a set amount of time, but I don't see it being helpful.

Anonymous said...

You should confront him. It isn't fair to you or his fiance that he did this. Stand up for yourself, MM! This is the 21st century! Don't let yourself or any other girl get tossed around by some stupid guy who never learnt veahavta lereacha kamocha! It would also be the right thing to try to save his fiance from marrying a shmuck.

Anonymous said...

There is the highly unlikely possibility, that he may have met you before the girl he's engaged to now. However if this is not the case, I really feel bad for his fiance....

frum single female said...

whats most creepy is how quickly he got engaged after having a date with you.
i wouldnt tell the fiance unless she's a good friend of yours.

Moshe said...

Maybe it was love at first site ;-)

chanief said...

Yikes, his poor fiance. He sounds like he has a future as an unfaithful husband. I'm glad he wasn't your type and that your name isn't next to his.

chanie said...

I'd be glad my name wasn't next to his. And I'd warn the future spouse of such a person- she has to know and find out why that happened. Double dating? Why? Triple? Why? Just for fun? Uh, no matter which way you put it, that's a good excuse to dump him. I would...and I'd tell her. Try to find a way to do so.

Ben Turin said...

Here is a definition of cheating that I like. Its cheating if you wouldn't share it with the other person you were in the relationship with. So in your case if he was seriously dating his future fiance when he had dinner with you (and wouldn't have shared with her that he was dating) I would define it as cheating. On the other hand, its possible that he hadn't even met the fiance yet and did a superfast and date and engage deal with her. Rebound off your date?