tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post8418132658964449171..comments2023-10-11T22:45:32.049-04:00Comments on material maidel: cheating?Maidelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11342989598403517433noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-64231292037302345482009-03-31T17:53:00.000-04:002009-03-31T17:53:00.000-04:00Here is a definition of cheating that I like. Its...Here is a definition of cheating that I like. Its cheating if you wouldn't share it with the other person you were in the relationship with. So in your case if he was seriously dating his future fiance when he had dinner with you (and wouldn't have shared with her that he was dating) I would define it as cheating. On the other hand, its possible that he hadn't even met the fiance yet and did a superfast and date and engage deal with her. Rebound off your date?Ben Turinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10606844544468973960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-11255601898221700472009-03-12T23:35:00.000-04:002009-03-12T23:35:00.000-04:00I'd be glad my name wasn't next to his. And I'd w...I'd be glad my name wasn't next to his. And I'd warn the future spouse of such a person- she has to know and find out why that happened. Double dating? Why? Triple? Why? Just for fun? Uh, no matter which way you put it, that's a good excuse to dump him. I would...and I'd tell her. Try to find a way to do so.chaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14023083898665410736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-84540031203515555032009-03-11T12:23:00.000-04:002009-03-11T12:23:00.000-04:00Yikes, his poor fiance. He sounds like he has a fu...Yikes, his poor fiance. He sounds like he has a future as an unfaithful husband. I'm glad he wasn't your type and that your name isn't next to his.chaniefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11775472765573087258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-22907339675171021512009-03-08T10:12:00.000-04:002009-03-08T10:12:00.000-04:00Maybe it was love at first site ;-)Maybe it was love at first site ;-)Ookamikunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01145237927656807738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-55891010018541110642009-03-05T23:56:00.000-05:002009-03-05T23:56:00.000-05:00whats most creepy is how quickly he got engaged af...whats most creepy is how quickly he got engaged after having a date with you. <BR/>i wouldnt tell the fiance unless she's a good friend of yours.frum single femalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01592899863773572708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-63477391058878821302009-03-05T23:35:00.000-05:002009-03-05T23:35:00.000-05:00There is the highly unlikely possibility, that he ...There is the highly unlikely possibility, that he may have met you before the girl he's engaged to now. However if this is not the case, I really feel bad for his fiance....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-71530870204196355122009-03-05T16:16:00.000-05:002009-03-05T16:16:00.000-05:00You should confront him. It isn't fair to you or h...You should confront him. It isn't fair to you or his fiance that he did this. Stand up for yourself, MM! This is the 21st century! Don't let yourself or any other girl get tossed around by some stupid guy who never learnt veahavta lereacha kamocha! It would also be the right thing to try to save his fiance from marrying a shmuck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-71484226668325924102009-03-05T13:34:00.000-05:002009-03-05T13:34:00.000-05:00So I guess he was double dating.. Or triple dating...So I guess he was double dating.. Or triple dating... Or maybe not...<BR/><BR/>In regular circumstances I think double dating is disgusting since usually you end up comparing...<BR/>It's also totally disrespectful to the girl your dating, since it usually means you are not giving it your best shot and full mind. Kinda like a free trial thing.<BR/><BR/>There are some instances where people to find it acceptable. Like when people come from over seas to look for a shidduch for a set amount of time, but I don't see it being helpful.NotaGeek!https://www.blogger.com/profile/16607161526210741574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-21497906133765406432009-03-05T13:32:00.000-05:002009-03-05T13:32:00.000-05:00Wow. that's incredibly creepy.Wow. that's incredibly creepy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-47192188978111249502009-03-05T12:31:00.000-05:002009-03-05T12:31:00.000-05:00soooo weirdsoooo weirdEsPeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12181641164877461141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7594551858000480911.post-64055631287885185162009-03-05T09:19:00.000-05:002009-03-05T09:19:00.000-05:00wow.wow.rbtznhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04299085943772602695noreply@blogger.com